Chanticleer Book Reviews

Tag: Personal Memoir

  • WALTZING A TWO-STEP by Dan Juday – Inspirational Memoir, LGBTQ+ Memoir, Coming-of-Age Memoir

    WALTZING A TWO-STEP by Dan Juday – Inspirational Memoir, LGBTQ+ Memoir, Coming-of-Age Memoir

    Dan Juday’s memoir Waltzing A Two-Step is a humble and compassionate look at his formative years.

    Born a few years after the second world war, Dan experiences a peaceful and happy childhood in rural Indiana, moving frequently before the family settles on a rural area of land named Springwood in Clinton County, Indiana. The Juday family were devout Catholics and enrolled Dan and his siblings in Catholic schools until the family moved to Springwood. Public school became the only option for the siblings. There Dan does his best to fit in but his status as a minority Catholic in a mostly Protestant community in the 1950s brings its own challenges.

    For Dan, his struggles don’t stop there.

    From a young age, Dan knew there was something inherently different about himself that didn’t align with what the world around him expected, and as he grows older and enters adolescence, it becomes increasingly difficult to ignore. By the time Dan reaches college, the country is facing a lot of cultural changes from the growing political and racial tensions of the 1960s. Young men around him without deferments are being drafted to fight in Vietnam. As he progresses through his undergraduate courses, Dan continues to struggle with finding his place in the world and finding a suitable partner his family would approve of.

    Almost by fate, a counselor suggests he switch his minor to Spanish. Dan soon finds a sense of belonging with a group of international students and soon decides to study abroad in Spain. While at the airport, he meets a fellow student named Ricky and embraces the growing desire to live truthfully in a world that is still a long way from being accepting.

    Waltzing A Two-Step is a unique memoir in that Dan’s thoughts and feelings serve as a backdrop and rarely come to the forefront.

    Dan uses his ability as a strong observer to tell his story through the people and places that surrounded him in his life. Through his quiet observation of the world, he sees the simplicity of life growing up, but as the 1960s bring large cultural shifts, Dan’s simple worldview is increasingly challenged. His struggle to find a sense of belonging is a quintessential part of adolescence and emulates that complex experience throughout the memoir. His journey of self-acceptance of his sexuality will also be relatable to any reader who has experienced similar challenges.

    Juday focuses on the themes of family, faith, and self.

    He dedicates a section of the book to each with a final one tying them all together as a sort of reckoning. One theme that stands out addresses how people who may only be in your life for a brief moment, in the end,  can have some of the biggest impacts. The most beautiful and often bittersweet moments of the book show meaningful relationships that last just a short while. The best example being the immigrant family that lives in the apartment above Dan in New Jersey and welcomes him into their family when he needed one. It’s a beautiful message about life, to embrace the people around you and treasure them as you journey through the trials of life.

    Dan Juday’s Waltzing A Two-Step: Reckoning Family, Faith, and Self is a coming-of-age memoir that is a must-read. A compassionate journey of self-acceptance that follows Dan Juday from the rural communities of Indiana, across Europe, and along the East Coast searching for a life well-lived.

     

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  • I REMEMBER HORSEBUNS by Rafe Mair, a historical memoir

    I REMEMBER HORSEBUNS by Rafe Mair, a historical memoir

    In this delightfully well-written, very personal memoir, Rafe Mair, who describes himself as a British Columbian first and a Canadian second, tells the story of his childhood and beyond as he grew up in Vancouver. Mair was a politician in Premier Bill Bennett’s cabinet in Victoria, then left politics behind to host the radio show Open Line. An opinionated commentator and a lover of history, Mair describes himself as having a “revolutionary bent.” His reminiscences of Vancouver and British Columbia during a time of great growth and change are insightful and fascinating.

    Mair begins his story on a humorous, explanatory note of the book’s title, recalling the early years of Vancouver, during which commodities such as bread, eggs, and milk were delivered to one’s door by horse-drawn wagons. One side effect of these deliveries was the frequent pile of “horsebuns” left behind in the street, which came in very handy for the fertilization of the “Victory Gardens” during the war! Mr. Mair also gives a humorous, yet serious definition of what it is to be a true British Columbian.

    Yet underneath the humorous anecdotes and light-hearted reminiscences, this memoir is a modern historical record of British Columbia and Canada, as told by a man who deeply understands the politics, culture and history of his homeland. He juxtaposes intimate portraits of his family with detailed renderings of events that shaped his hometown and province. His childhood, spent in Vancouver’s neighborhoods, provides a picture of the immigrant communities that became the foundation of the city’s modern, cosmopolitan culture. His love for his country, as well as his in-depth knowledge of it, shines through on every page.

    As an adult, Mair was active in fighting for or against legislation he strongly believed would aid or threaten the very survival of his province and its cities. These events are described with an insider’s understanding of what was at stake. Mair continues his work to this day, as an environmental activist and community leader.

    Readers of this memoir are entertained and also given an insightful rendering of Canada and its culture that they would never glean from reading history books. Highly recommended for Canadians who want a deeper understanding of the events that have shaped their country and culture, as well as for Americans who want to better know their neighbors to the north.