Tag: Mother’s Day

  • Celebrating Mothers We Love (or Don’t) in Literature on Mother’s Day

    Mother’s Day is here!

    It’s time to celebrate moms in literature and off the page!

    Mother’s Day celebrates that very important person in our lives who has been with us even before we were born. Each mother is unique and leaves a lasting effect on their children, even the absence of a mother leaves a lasting effect on a child. They can be loving and kind, hateful and mean, or anywhere in between.

    And in life as it is in literature—some mothers are absolutely unforgettable!

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    Oh, My Dear! — Archetypes of Mothers in Literature

    Literature is filled with unique mother characters, ranging from the stereotypical “perfect” mother to the complicated, dark evil mothers that make life messy. Motherhood is fertile ground in a plot. These archetypes of mothers in literature offer amazing opportunities for intriguing creative arcs and the emotional impact provide can be as heavy as you want it to be. We love them, we leave them, we hate them, we suffer from them, but they are sometimes the most compelling part of a story.

    This Mother’s Day let’s explore common archetypes of mothers in literature and consider all the ways they are depicted in some of our favorite novels!

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    The Iconic Mother

    When we think of the ideal mother, we imagine one with infinite patience, unending kindness, and a love that will last forever. She’s there when we need her and always looking out for us.

    In The Fault in Our Stars by John Green. Mrs. Lancaster adores her cancer-stricken daughter, taking care her and trying to protect her as much as she can from the realities of her diagnosis. She is always there, always reliable, and always comforting.

    Ruth Jamison from Fannie Flagg’s Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe is determined to protect her child, too. Ruth leaves an abusive husband to set up home with her friend, Idgie. Together, they raise Buddy Junior, run a cafe, fight racial prejudice, and ultimately protect Buddy from his father.

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    The Conflicted Mother

    The tragic mother is a complex, interesting character, and represent the human frailties found in all of us, as represented through the lens of motherhood. Their list of flaws is long and varied. Distant, narcissistic, emotionally unstable; they are often presented in a negative light, but there is a spark of real humanity that keeps them from becoming truly malevolent.

    The Glass Castle, the Jeannette Walls memoir, retells her memories of living her young nomadic life in the American Southwest with mother, Rose Mary. Crippled by mental illness, Rose Mary couldn’t deal with the responsibility of providing for her family. She was addicted to excitement, and when the family’s money ran out, they settled in a dismal West Virginia mining town. Walls eventually finds her mother homeless on the streets of New York. While the intentions of the mother weren’t to be harmful to her children, her mental illness kept her from being a positive force in their lives.

    In Flowers in the Attic by V.C. Andrews, Corrine, a mother to four children, sacrifices their well-being in order to collect on an inheritance. Her greed and narcissistic behavior leads to neglect that forces the children to fend for themselves and eventually leads to a tragedy that no good mother would wish on anyone. Yes, the story is tragic, but the cause of the tragedy comes from common character flaws taken too far.

    An example of a truly tragic mother is seen in Sophie Zawistowska, William Styron’s main character in Sophie’s Choice. A Polish survivor of the Holocaust, she is forced to choose which one of her two children will die in a Nazi gas chamber. The memories she tells show a lifetime of trauma as she deals with the guilt of this act. The utter cruelty exhibited by her Nazi captors cuts her soul in two, using the love she has for her children as the knife.

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    The Evil Mother

    A mother’s love runs deep. So, when that love is missing, there is a deep, dark hole in their heart that is blacker than night. They are abusive, hateful, deranged, and so many other horrible things that to be in their heads when reading is taking a trip down a very dark path.

    Stephen King’s Carrie provides us with the ultimate crazy mother. Whipped up into a religious fervor, she mentally, emotionally, and spiritually abuses her daughter until, in great Stephen Kin signature style, the devil opens the doors to Hades and all hell breaks loose. We see a true psychotic break (and probably other things) in Carrie’s mother, Margaret.

    In John Steinbeck’s classic East of Eden, Motherhood clearly means little to Cathy Ames, a mother of twin teenage boys. She shoots her husband in the arm and abandons her children at their birth. She is the owner of a sadistic, drug den of a brothel and revels in the shame her boys feel about her life. There are many other things to dislike about Cathy Ames, but her lack of mother instincts and purposely stomping on the love of two innocent boys puts her firmly in the evil mom category.

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    Characters with Endless Inspiration

    In literature we get to explore the complexity of motherhood from every angle—the good, the bad, and the downright dangerous. Mother tropes are interesting, fun, crazy, and sometimes completely disturbed disrupters or enablers. And, thus, mothers of every type lead to endless inspiration for authors.

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    Start exploring the different archetypes of mothers with Chanticleer authors and the mothers they  incorporate into their stories

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    Master storyteller Reenita Malhotra Hora’s YA romance Operation Mom: My Plan to Get My Mom a Life and a Man takes us on a charming journey through the life of one teen, Ila Isham.

    Hora introduces Ila and her best friend Deepali, two boy-crazy teens on a summer quest. Readers will fall in love with the smart, sassy, angst-filled, rebellious Ila. A typical teenage girl, Ila lives in Mumbai with her mom and Sakkubai, their house manager. Ila’s mother calls her obsessed, but that seems unfair. Is she obsessed just because her every waking minute is spent thinking of Ali Zafar, famous pop icon, singer, and heartthrob? Or is she obsessed with fellow classmate Dev?

    No, Ila couldn’t be taken with Dev because he’s one of three young men that her best friend Deepali is juggling in her summer experiment of exploring her “feminine mystique.” This turn of phrase becomes just one of many opportunities for Hora’s humor to shine as Ila remarks, “That’s a book by Gloria Steinem… no Betty Friedan.” Deepali’s response? “Yaar. Don’t be so literal.” The delightful balance between Ila’s book smarts versus Deepali’s street smarts carries us through Hora’s expertly crafted story.

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    The Adventure of the Murdered Midwife (The Early Case Files of Sherlock Holmes, Book 1)

    The game is afoot! It’s years before Sherlock Holmes’ ponderings from 221B Baker Street. Sherlock is a teenager when challenged to solve his first case, The Adventure of the Murdered Midwife by Liese Sherwood-Fabre.

    The stakes are among the highest. Sherlock’s beloved mother is the accused killer when he and his infamous brother Mycroft are summoned home from their boarding schools. The family reunites to a single purpose. They must prove Violette Holmes’s innocence. They soon discover that proving her innocence will not be enough to restore her standing in the court of public opinion. They can only clear her name by also finding the actual killer. That investigation involves a dangerous pursuit that requires detailed observation, logic, and action. Young Sherlock Holmes will also need to watch his back.

    The adventure begins with a brief glimpse into Sherlock’s school days.

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    Remedy for a Broken Angel by Toni Ann Johnson is an intense examination of the troubled personal histories of two beautiful and talented women of color.

    Their stories are told in alternating chapters which reveal the mother’s and her daughter’s attempts to reclaim and understand their broken pasts. Each chapter is a revelation into the pain and damage caused by unknown family secrets. Both women struggle with a legacy of shame and self-blame for the price they’re paying for never hearing the truth. Each must learn the lessons found in past years of failure to communicate.

    The beautiful mother, Serena, is a successful Bermudian jazz singer and songwriter who is consumed by anger over feeling unloved as a child. Years later, her hurt and confusion over being abandoned by her family cause her to repeat the past by leaving her own marriage and abandoning her twelve-year-old daughter.

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    Fly Safe: Letters from the Gulf War and Reflections from Back Home
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    Not many people can capture the emotions that coincide with war, but Vicki Cody joins the ranks of those who do in her wartime memoir, Fly Safe: Letters from the Gulf War and Reflections from Back Home.

    This powerful memoir shows us the behind-the-scenes lives of the women, children, and families left at home while their soldiers set off for war, bringing us close to their raw vulnerability. Fly Safe fascinates as it informs readers of what one wife experiences as her commander husband leads his battalion to the middle east.

    Cody takes us back in time to the early 1990s when the first President Bush called up troops in an operation called “Desert Shield,” which turned into Desert Storm. She captures the events that led up to our first conflict in the middle east, but far from being strictly pedantic and historical, centers on the warmth, love, and fears that most of the wives were experiencing. Her letters from her husband – and her journal entries read like daily affirmations and blend well in telling this story.

    The memoir shines as a first-person account of the ins-and-outs of a military family’s life during war.

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    Guided
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    In her stunning memoir, Guided: Lost Love, Hidden Realms, and the Open Road,Kirsten Throneberry weaves together the highs and lows of a road trip packed with life wisdom, where she explores grief, spirituality, and rekindled hope.

    Throneberry’s achingly vulnerable memoir splits its readers’ hearts and tenderly sews them back together.

    In the aftermath of the devastating loss of her husband, Kirsten sells her home and takes her two small sons, two elderly pups, and eccentric mother on a year-long road trip around the United States in their new-to-them Bigfoot RV.

    Encouraged by the same spirit guides whose earlier advice for her husband’s health left her broken and untrusting, Kirsten must learn to face the open road with an equally open heart and mind.

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    We would like to wish all mothers, mothers-to-be, stand-in mothers, and those who possess the mothering instinct, a very Happy Mother’s Day! 

    Thank you for joining us in celebrating the Mothers in our life!

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  • Celebrating Mother’s Day Around the World – Holiday Traditions and Stories From Around the World

    Happy Mother’s Day from Chanticleer!

    A Day to Celebrate a Mother’s Love and Devotion

    Motherhood is a never-ending, all-encompassing role that is hard, but willingly taken on by mothers around the world. In the United States, we celebrate Mother’s Day on the second Sunday in May (this year on May 12) with gifts of flowers, candy, or a brunch prepared at home or enjoyed at her favorite restaurant. It’s a tradition that began in 1914 with the “Mother’s Day Proclamation” to create a federal holiday recognizing the devotion and love we have for our mothers.

    A Celebration of Mothers Across the Globe

    Countries around the world have created their own traditions to celebrate mothers, with unique activities that make it a special day for their moms. Here are just a few of the many ways people celebrate Mother’s Day across the globe.

    Peru

    Just as it is in the United States, Peru celebrates Mother’s Day on the second day in May. Along with flowers, candy, and gifts, families gather in cemeteries  to honor the mothers, aunts, and grandmothers who have passed away. It’s a joyous occasion for socializing and enjoying food and drinks before cleaning and decorating the grave sites.

    Russia

    It’s a fall holiday for Russia’s Mother’s Day! A proclamation signed in 1998 by then president Boris Yeltsin dictates the last Sunday of November as a day of celebration “to maintain the tradition of careful attitude to the woman” and “to consolidate the foundations of the family.”

    Thailand

    Thailand combines the meaning of their Mother’s Day celebrations to recognize their Queen Mother on her birthday, as well as all Thai mothers. Mothers visit their children’s school, where sons and daughters kneel before them as a sign of respect and offer white jasmine flowers to symbolize the purity of a mother’s love. Later, fireworks displays and candle-lighting traditions make the night sparkle.

    Mexico

    Flowers play a big part in celebrating Mothers Day in Mexico, and children living outside their family home make it priority to stay overnight so they can be with their mother when they wake up the next morning to a mariachi band singing “Las Mañanitas.”

    Chanticleer Celebrates Mothers with Inspiring, Fun, and Compelling Stories of Motherhood!

    Need some great books about Mom’s? Check out our Mother’s Day Reading List!

    OPERATION MOM
    By Reenita M. Hora
    Chatelaine Grand Prize Winner
    Dante Rossetti First Place Winner

    Master storyteller Reenita Malhotra Hora’s YA romance Operation Mom: My Plan to Get My Mom a Life and a Man takes us on a charming journey through the life of one teen, Ila Isham.

    Hora introduces Ila and her best friend Deepali, two boy-crazy teens on a summer quest. Readers will fall in love with the smart, sassy, angst-filled, rebellious Ila. A typical teenage girl, Ila lives in Mumbai with her mom and Sakkubai, their house manager. Ila’s mother calls her obsessed, but that seems unfair. Is she obsessed just because her every waking minute is spent thinking of Ali Zafar, famous pop icon, singer, and heartthrob? Or is she obsessed with fellow classmate Dev?

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    Voices of Navajo Mothers and Daughters: Portraits of Beauty by Kathy Eckles Hooker is a heartwarming work exploring the relationships between Navajo mothers and daughters, their connections with each other and their families, and their hopes and dreams for their children as they encounter a world far removed from their traditional lives.

    In these insightful interviews with Navajo women—grandmothers, mothers, and daughters—the twenty-one families that the author spoke to talked about their backgrounds and histories. They contrasted how the elder women grew up compared to their daughters and granddaughters (such as the lack of amenities like electricity, running water, or internal combustion vehicles). And they explored the many ways that traditional matriarchal Navajo culture continues to enrich their lives today.

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    LILLY AND MAY LEARN WHY MOM AND DAD WORK
    by Anthony C. Delauney

     

    Lilly and May both wish that their parents didn’t have to leave for work day after day. Discover the power of money and its impact on family in the delightful Lilly and May Learn Why Mom and Dad Work.

    They’re both upset one morning, as Mom and Dad go to work yet again instead of staying home with them. Lilly and May’s mother assures them that they will be back later, but they have to go and earn money to support the family. Before leaving, their mother teaches Lilly and May all the ways they need and use money. She shows how it impacts the people and community around them.

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    OUR TIME TO DANCE: A Mother’s Journey to Joy
    By Eva Doherty Gremmert
    Journey First Place Winner

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    Our Time to Dance: A Mother’s Journey to Joy by Eva Doherty Gremmert demonstrates the importance of advocacy for those who are disabled, intellectually or otherwise.

    In the early morning of August 18th, 1979, Eva Doherty Gremmert awoke with a contraction. A young mother already, Eva is worried about how she will cope with caring for two infants. She tried to calm her concerns by remembering that babies typically arrive easier and more quickly the second time around; however, the delivery ends up being long and exhausting. Once her son Nick arrived, Eva could not shake the feeling that something might be wrong. For the first several months of Nick’s life, doctors actively ignored her concerns and told her nothing was wrong with her son.

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    A GRAVE EVERY MILE: Ghosts Along the Oregon Trail, Book 1
    By David Fitz-Gerald
    Series Grand Prize Winner

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    Each day’s trumpet blasts the predawn quiet of the sleeping wagon train, demanding that its migrating families face what’s ahead, whether incredible scenery or mortal danger, in David Fitz-Gerald’s A Grave Every Mile.

    This beautifully told story mixes adventure, survival, community, and history, all shown through the eyes of Dorcas, a feisty mother of four. She’s dreamed of hitting the trail to the storied West for so long, but much about this trip and their destination remains unknown.

    Another wagon travels alongside hers. Who are they? Will they remain strangers, or become friends? Now that Dorcas stands with her family at the trail’s starting point and on the brink of changing their lives forever, a tremor of doubt surfaces about what lies ahead. Is her family strong enough to face their future? Will it be everything she and her husband hoped for? That future is 720,000 turns of the wagon wheels away, and there may be A Grave Every Mile. It all starts with that first pull by the team of oxen.

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    We would like to wish all mothers, mothers-to-be, stand-in mothers, and those who possess the mothering instinct, a very Happy Mother’s Day! 

    Thank you for joining us in celebrating the Mothers in our life!

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    Thank you again to the authors who wrote these wonderful books, and to all who act as mothers! You are so loved and appreciated! Enjoy Las Mañanitas below!

  • In Celebration of Mother’s Day – Interesting Tidbits, Some History, and a Few of Our Favorite Books

    In Celebration of Mother’s Day – Interesting Tidbits, Some History, and a Few of Our Favorite Books

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    While mothers are as varied and diverse as the many varieties of flowers in the world, none of us would be here without them! When I think of the word “mother,” there is no possible way I can disassociate the word from my mother. She is strong-willed, strong-minded, and strong-opinioned. And her love rivals the strength of the greatest army the world has ever known. She is my mother. She is the one person who loves me enough to tell me when I am wrong and, yet, loves me anyway.

    How and When was “Mother’s Day” Started

    As all things of Western Civilisation seem to have started in ancient Greece it seems (reference: My Big Fat Greek Wedding), so did Mother’s Day. Well, sort of, honoring the goddess, Cybele/Rhea (depending on time and region). The early Christian Church co-opted the day, calling it “Mothering Sunday,” a festival day in which the faithful would return to the church of their birth. 

    When is Mother’s Day Celebrated Around the World?

    • Mother’s Day is celebrated on the second Sunday in May, in the USA, Canada, most European countries, Australia, New Zealand, India, China, Japan, the Philippines, and South Africa.
    • The UK and Ireland celebrate Mother’s Day on the fourth Sunday in Lent.
    • Most Arab countries celebrate Mother’s Day on March 21st (vernal equinox).
    • Most East European countries celebrate Mother’s Day on March 8th. For a complete overview of the dates of Mother’s Day around the world see Mother’s Day on Wikipedia.

    The Rise of Mother’s Day in America

    Before the Civil War, Ann Jarvis and her friend, Julia Ward Howe decided to set up regional clubs, “Mothers Day Work Clubs” designed to teach young mothers how to care for their infants. Their involvement and the clubs continued throughout the Civil War and once the war ended, they held a Mothers’ Friendship Day and invited both Union and Confederate soldiers and their mothers to attend. Big strides toward reconciliation were made through the efforts of these women.

    The women who inspired Mother’s Day were social activists, abolitionists, suffragettes, and educators who wanted to make their world – and their children’s world a much better place. And that is something to celebrate!

    It was all made a legal holiday when Anna Jarvis, inspired by her social activist mother, Ann Maria Reeves Jarvis, decided to memorialize a day in which to celebrate her mother. In 1907, three years after her mother’s death, she did just that. She chose a white carnation to inspire people to remember their mothers and what they sacrificed for them.

    “Its whiteness is to symbolize the truth, purity and broad-charity of mother love; its fragrance, her memory, and her prayers. The carnation does not drop its petals, but hugs them to its heart as it dies, and so, too, mothers hug their children to their hearts, their mother love never dying. When I selected this flower, I was remembering my mother’s bed of white pinks (flowers)…”  – Anna Jarvis  (quote)

    It wasn’t until 1914 that Woodrow Wilson signed a decree that designated the second Sunday in May as the United States official day to celebrate Mother’s Day. Of course, Mother’s Day is celebrated all over the world (in at least 49 countries) on different days.

    It should be noted that Anna Jarvis wasn’t very happy with the commercialization of Mother’s Day and she fought long and hard to try and get it withdrawn as a national holiday, but we all know how that ended. And if you don’t, well, let’s just say it is a most intriguing mystery…

    Suggested Reads 

    Because mothers are incredibly diverse in their habits and reading lists, we invite you to dive into our reviews and choose what’s you think your mother would like to read most and to perhaps enjoy the books yourself.

    Chanticleer Mother’s Day Reading List!

     

    Jaimie Ford‘s Love and Other Consolation Prizes is powerful storytelling from a master storyteller! Jaimie Ford breathes to life a little-known piece of Seattle history spanning the early to the mid 21st century. And a truly unique story of the many ways a mother’s love can manifest itself. 

     

     

     

     

     

    Before We Were Yours by Lisa Wingate is a disturbing look into what those who should know better, choose to do to society’s most vulnerable during the 30-years between 1920 and 1950 at the Tennessee Children’s Home Society.

     

     

     

     

     

    DianForbesMistress Suffragette examines the facts of life, the challenges of social restrictions, and the woes of youthful love through the eyes of a sharp-minded, sharp-shooting young woman. Mistress Suffragette is now available on Audible

     

     

     

     

     

    Nicole Evelina‘s Madame Presidentess is a fascinating story of a woman’s meteoric rise from rags to riches, from subservience to achievement – based on a true story that was instrumental in propelling the Suffragette Movement. 

     

     

     

     

    A Theory of Expanded Love by Caitlin Hicks

     

    A Theory of Expanded Love by Caitlin Hicks is a bold, authentic, & captivating –a young teen in the 1960s confronts doctrine when it threatens to outweigh compassion.

     

     

     

     

     

    Caregiving Our Loved Ones by Nanette Davis, Ph.D. Dr. Davis passes on her knowledge to caregivers for dealing with the ongoing emotional, financial and health toll of taking care of someone who will never get better.

     

     

     

     

     

    Nick AdamsAway at War: A Civil War Story of the Family Left Behind is a rich and fascinating account of day-to-day life in rural America in the mid-19th century set against the backdrop of the Civil War. Taken from primary sources, this narrative brings to life all that was loved and all that was lost.

     

     

     

     


    This is just the beginning of our list! To find more amazing reads in every genre, please click here to discover our favorites!

    We would like to wish all mothers, mothers-to-be, stand-in mothers, and those who possess the mothering instinct, a very Happy Mother’s Day! 

     

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