Tag: 1970s

  • SOUR FLOWER by Maryanne Melloan Woods – YA Coming of Age, Family Relationships, 1970s

     

    blue and gold badge recognizing Sour Flower by Maryanne Melloan Woods for winning the 2023 Dante Rossetti Grand Prize

    Sour Flower, the unpublished feel-good coming-of-age novel by Maryanne Melloan Woods, contrasts the joys of teen friendship with the hardships of growing up in a broken family.

    As a fourteen-year-old in 1970s San Francisco, Marigold (call her “M”) Hayes is fed up with her life.

    M is very much aware of her role as the mature buzzkill in the family. Her parents, college dropouts and now divorced hippies, barely have it together. M often has to act as the mature adult for the sake of housing and basic necessities. With a spaced-out father who barely supports them and a mother who thinks her daughter is a square, it’s a miracle that M has kept her family afloat for so long.

    When her English teacher suggests M apply to Barnum—an elite prep school offering scholarships to students in need—she dares to hope. Maybe this could give her a chance to pursue her dream of becoming a financially stable businesswoman.

    But the application process poses its own challenges, one being an in-person interview with Barnum and her tragically embarassing parents. As she prepares her application alongside Philip and Gabi, her best friends who also come from broken homes, M must contend with a range of insecurities both childish and adult.

    She stalks Barnum students to determine how she can fit in, sells her crocheted patterns at street fairs to make ends meet, and helps her friends see their own potential as she strives to find her writing voice for her application essay. M faces an uphill battle where the stakes for a young teenage girl seem impossibly high.

    As a writer, Woods masterfully approaches the bildungsroman with equal parts levity and melodrama.

    M makes a compelling and flawed protagonist. She extends her parental role to protecting her younger brother, making sure he gets every opportunity to experience the joys of childhood—often at the expense of her own. M’s ambition to break out of the conditions that hold her back propels her into the awkward antics and embarrassing mishaps rife in any well-penned young adult novel.

    The backdrop of 1970s San Francisco’s hippie scene makes for a pivotal plot point, as M’s family butt heads with their stances on the Vietnam War unfolding in real time thousands of miles away.

    A comedy of errors follows many of M’s sour-hearted decisions, but it’s precisely this trouble that draws people close to her personal authenticity.

    As she begins to attain true maturity, M learns to embrace the contradictions in her life and in the lives of others. She discovers along the way that some of her so-called nemeses may be more like her than they’d care to admit. Fans of Louise Rennison’s Confessions of Georgia Nicolson series and Greta Gerwig’s Lady Bird would find Sour Flower heartwarming in M’s aching desire to fit in, and in the lesson to take life a little less seriously while learning to accept all of its complexities.

    Sour Flower by Maryanne Melloan Woods won Grand Prize in the 2023 CIBA Dante Rossetti Awards for YA Fiction.

  • GETTING To YES by Tim Hunniecutt – Romance, 1970s, Emotional Struggle

     

    As a freshman at Florida State University, Chris should be enjoying the usual 1970s “free spirit” college experiences, a little studying and a lot of partying. In Tim Hunniecutt’s Getting to Yes, Chris dreams of being a poet. His way with words, boy-next-door looks, and an athletic runner’s body means he has no trouble attracting one girl after another. However, Chris wants more than just a fling.

    He’s looking for a relationship, a girl who loves him, but the girls he meets don’t seem to want forever. Most of them only want a good time or have boyfriends back home. After a series of failed romances, Chris finds himself depressed, realizing part of the problem lies in the emotional chasm he’s carved within himself after his parents’ disastrous marriage.

    Chris’s emotional roadblock began when he caught his mother naked in the arms of a man who was not his father.

    He never told anyone, including his father, about the affair, and his parents went on for a while pretending their relationship wasn’t falling apart. Their loveless marriage created in Chris a fear of expressing his own emotions. In his adolescent mind, not revealing the weakness of loving too strongly became normalized. When his father finally broke down and cried to Chris about his mother’s lack of love, Chris’s derision of feelings became cemented in his psyche. Girls were simply pretty distractions. Ironically, the maturity he likely developed because of this situation makes him easy to talk to, and girls flock to him.

    It isn’t until he meets Deb, a girl in his class with a terrible home life, that he begins to realize a need within himself to find more than just physical attraction. Though Deb is unattainable, she awakens an “overwhelming hunger” within him, which he sates by dating as many girls as possible in his first year at FSU. He thinks he finds what he’s missing in Colleen, his first girlfriend.

    His first attempts at physical love end in failure. When he finally finds physical fulfillment with a girl, he falls immediately in love with her.

    Colleen seems perfect for him, but when he discovers she has a boyfriend, he doesn’t try to fight for her. He won’t acknowledge his strong feelings, and he allows her to slip away. Chris vows never to allow his inability to open up get in his way again, and when he returns home at the end of his freshman year, he meets Chloe.

    It’s love at first sight–at least for Chris. He falls quickly, offering his heartfelt “I love you” early in their relationship, but Chloe comes with her own issues. Her abusive father left a need for male approval that she seeks in the arms of the wrong boys, and she repeatedly finds herself in loveless relationships in which she is used and tossed aside.

    Chris’s pain is palpable in the novel, and his uncertainty is heart-wrenching, creating a strong theme of trust– the kind of trust that comes with allowing oneself to love and knowing the other person will return that love. When Chloe finally allows herself to express aloud to Chris what he desperately needs to hear, she gives herself permission to feel this trust.

    Tim Hunniecutt’s Getting to Yes is a tale of a young man searching for his first real love and finding that what he learned from his parents does not have to be his fate. This book is recommended for anyone who wants to explore the complexities of early love though a young man’s perspective as he struggles to overcome the damage of his own parents’ marriage.